Do you know this song “Christmas in Our Hearts”? It is a very meaningful song. That’s why I love it so much. For sure, you know the author of this song. It’s Jose Mari Chan. He is a very popular Filipino song writer and a singer.
Last night, we watched his concert at CAP auditorium. It was sponsored by our parish so I was there to welcome people. I observed that there were a lot of people waiting. Some were waiting to meet friends and their families. Some were waiting for more customers to buy tickets. Some were waiting for the concert to start.
Perhaps, in our lives, there are much of waiting. We are waiting for someone we love and we miss – our friends, best friends, girlfriends or boyfriends, our sisters or brothers – who have been gone for awhile or for a long time. We anticipate their return. We don’t ignore their absence. We want to let them know how much we want to be with them again.
However, waiting is not that easy. Sometimes we feel bored or annoying. Waiting demands patients. And it demands us to stay awake - to “watch!”
In our Gospel today, Jesus tells us the parable about the long expected return of the Master. During that time, the wealthy land owners often left their business in the hands of his trusted servants. This gave them freedom to trade, freedom to expand the business, a freedom to use the talents and gifts. The Master expected them to be faithfulness, to be alert, to watch.
The faithful servants were those who stay awake, those who would eagerly anticipate their master’s return. They kept the house and the business in good order. They were alert and always ready and watchful.
Today, we are celebrating the First Sunday of Advent. We have our beautiful Advent wreath here. We have for Sundays before Christmas. Advent is a season of waiting, a season of preparation for the coming of Christ. We celebrate the first coming of Jesus Christ at Christmas. He came to live with us. More deeply, this season is a special preparation for the second coming of Christ. This time is certain but we don’t know when it comes. That is why Jesus wants us to be alert, to watch.
There always been a challenge for us to be aware that waiting is not something that is passive. It is not just sitting there and do nothing, or just wait and let see what happens. Our waiting is to keep watch, that is, to be active, to be awake. Our world is in chaos. Many are suffering of hunger, of poverty and oppression. There are wars, division and conflicts in our politics.
As we enter into this mystery of the Advent season, we are also challenge to be aware of what is happening in our society, in our community and our own family. This season can be realized when we are alert and watchful, that is, to participate and contribute something for peace in our family, peace in our society, peace in our world. And we can do it.
Jose Mari Chan is very true in his song that “Christmas is in our hearts”. The spirit of giving, the spirit of loving is there already in our hearts. For myself, “Advent is also in our hearts”. In our hearts, we are crying for peace, we are longing for justice. In our hearts, we are waiting for the Kingdom – we pray “May your Kingdom come, your will be done on earth.” We are waiting with hope, and, indeed, our hope is here – we will receive him in the Eucharist. He is Jesus Christ.
Gen. 12:1-4; 2 Tim 1:8b-10; Mt 17:1-9
I have a friend named “Robert”. He was a desperate, hard-headed and angry young man. He looked at things negatively, ready to make trouble. He didn’t trust anyone. People labeled him as “Bad Boy” of the town. He ruined himself. He was not just a thief but also a drug addict.
After many years, I met him again. And he is now very different. He is completely changed. He looks inspired and happy. He no longer hates everyone. He became very active in the GKK. In our sharing he said to me, “I want to follow Christ. So I changed my life.” When I asked him if was it difficult for him. He said, “So difficult! Extremely difficult! I have to face pain and suffering. So I pray very hard... and He strengthens me.”
Robert decided to change his life. For him, it’s like gold tested in fire. It’s painful. He has to struggle day by day. In his experience of pain and struggles, God is there to strengthen him.
Our Gospel today tells us the story of how the disciples saw a change in Jesus. Jesus knows that he would suffer and die. He says to his disciples about this again and again. They don’t want Jesus, their master, to suffer and die. It is hard for them to hear it. They are at a loss. They are in the dark!
Realizing that his disciples are depressed, Jesus brings with him Peter, James and John to the mountain for prayers. When Jesus climbs the mountain to pray and to listen to the Father. Before their very eyes, Jesus’ face shines like the sun and his clothes become dazzling white. He shows them his glory. They have an opportunity to see the glory of Jesus. They have the opportunity to look to the divinity of Jesus.
When the disciples saw this vision, it gives them consolation and joy. It is a joy for them that bring them courage and faith in their hearts. It is an assurance for them that there is life after death. There is light after darkness. This experience strengthens them to face the pain and suffering of Jesus. Jesus encourages them and keeps them strong.
Like Robert, he finds that it’s difficult to change. He finds it so painful to follow Jesus. But Jesus, in his grace, keeps him strong. For him, the deep prayer, listening to God and trust in Him is his experience, like the disciples, that strengthened him to change his life.
This holy season of Lent, we are called to change our lives. It’s not easy! There are many trials and struggles. But, Jesus assured us of his grace. Jesus is always with us in our pain and struggles. God is there to keep us strong, to give us strength and courage. If we really want to change our life to follow Jesus, we have to take this challenge - to pray, to listen and to trust in his grace that strengthens us in our struggles to change.
Jonah 3:1-10; Luke 11:29-32
Matthew 2:13-15:19-23
Before I went for my Christmas vacation, I went to visit Nanay Nene, an old paralyzed woman in our neighborhood. She lives with her husband and three grandchildren in a very little house. Actually it was a swine’s house before. They just covered it with some old clothes and thick paper. She is paralyzed. She can’t move around. Her husband is sickly and old too. He can’t find work. They have children but they are away from them. They abandoned them. They don’t know where they are.
The worst thing is that their daughter left her three children to them, two boys and a girl. One is 12 years old, the other one is 10 and the youngest is 9. They can no longer remember the faces of their parents. The little girl is the one who take care of her grandmother. She does the washing, cleaning and others. Her little brothers go around looking for plastics and metals, and sell it. Sometimes, they catch just one or two little fish and that is enough for the whole day meal. Most of the time, they are hungry.
If we look at their life… if we look at their family… so terrible, isn’t it? They are the poorest of the poor. They have nothing to eat. Nanay Nene and her husband are old and sick. They need the love and care of their sons and daughters… but where are they? The three little children suffer. They need the love and care of their parents… but where are the parents? The situation of Nanay Nene’s family is just one example of many broken families. What they find most painful is the absence of love and care within the family. Parents abandon their children. Children abandon their parents.
The feast of the Holy Family gives us something to reflect on. The life of Joseph, Mary and Jesus in Nazareth was not that easy. The Holy Family is very human family! They lived in fear. They also lived in poverty. They lived in a very hard situation. Joseph and Mary escaped into Egypt to save their baby Jesus from the threat of Herod to kill the babies. Joseph did not abandon Jesus, his child. He did not abandon Mary, his wife. It is because of his love and care for his family. The love and care within the family makes it strong. The love and care within the family makes it holy.
Our readings today give us instructions to foster the love and care within the family – that is, to give respect, to be gentle, to be grateful, to be kind and to forgive to each member of the family. Love and care keeps our family together.
On this feast of the Holy Family, we are reminded that the very central for each family is LOVE AND CARE. The Holy Family, Joseph, Mary and Jesus, call all the families not to abandon our family. The Holy family is calling us to be to be enduring, to be strong. The Holy Family is calling us to be a loving and caring family.
Our family today is facing this serious trouble of lacking of love and care for each other. In many ways, we also don’t care about our family. We don’t listen to our father, to our mother, to our husband, to our wife, to our sons, to our daughter, to our family. Nanay Nene, her husband and grandchildren are hungry everyday. But they are not hungry for food; they are hungry for love and care of their own family. Every family needs love and care. Even how poor we are, we need love and care. Are we ready and willing to provide it?